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a college student, a writer, a poet, a poly kinky LGBTQ* atheist trying to figure shit out.

Fan of: Doctor Who, Sherlock, Lord of the Rings, Neil Gaiman, Terry Pratchett, The Hunger Games, Tamora Pierce, and many, many more.

Currently Obsessing Over
Show: Baccano!
Characters: everyone, tho
Ship: Klaine

I'm currently on hiatus from all RPing, but the Terre d'Ange Roleplay Boards are super rad! Send me asks for more information, or just come and join them!

See below for my tumblr RP blogs.

 

Anonymous asked
Me and John had been 'together' for a few months, we hold hands all the time, hug in public, kiss every now and then, and we both sleep in the same bed. John had tried to go further, he'd try to unbutton my shirt or trousers. I had always stopped him, saying I wasn't ready, but really I just wasn't attracted to him like that. Yes I believe I love him, but I don't feel sexually attracted to him. I guess I should talk to him about it sooner rather than later..

Ahhhh, Anon! Thank you so much!

I’m afraid I wasn’t clear enough in my initial request—I was hoping for links to or recommendations of full-length works of fiction.

Nevertheless, thank you so much for responding to my call to action. I’d love to see you expand this a bit further—how did self-avowed “not gay” John Watson get involved with nominally “married to my work” Sherlock Holmes? It’s always the development of the relationship, the negotiations that happen as it gets started and as it goes on that interest me.

Ace!Sherlock doesn’t exist in a vacuum and I’d love to see him in a fully-populated world.

To clarify for people sending me recs—the pairing does not matter to me; I just want to see asexual Sherlock navigating relationships w/ people, though not just due to his asexuality, but also due to his preoccupation with experiments and crimes. I’d love to see some time given to the relationship between Mycroft and Sherlock, particularly given the breathtaking cruelty of Mycroft’s comments on Sherlock’s sexuality (or lack thereof) in A Scandal in Belgravia.

Anonymous asked
YOU ARE PERFECT AND I LOVE YOU (also thanks for the gift) xxx

<3 <3 <3 You are wonderful!

Anonymous asked
you're perfect. :)

:] Thanks.

Anonymous asked
i love you

Aw, thank you, anon!

Anonymous asked
Marry me?you called me gorgeous...even though im not...I kind of believed you...

I’m sorry, love. I have sworn that I will only ever get married if it is to Seth Meyers and Felicia Day simultaneously.

But you are gorgeous. Never doubt it. <3

Anonymous asked
YOU MAKE MY HEART GO WUSFEIFEGVJUIAHVAU9NRVUNSD AND I JUST WANNA HUG YOU DAMN IT

I love hugs! But perhaps you should see about all those noises your heart is making, first.

Anonymous asked
why are you so perfect.

a;ldfjal;sk shooooosh. <33 Am not~!

Anonymous asked
you're a beautiful person. don't change anything about you! it's perfect. :)

<33 thank you so much. I am still trying to grow and better myself, but it helps to hear this.

Anonymous asked
why are you so great!?

a;dsfjakl;sjal; shush no i’m not. <3

Anonymous asked
you're awesome!

*blush* Thanks!

Anonymous asked
i think that you're a beautiful person. :)

<3 Thank you so much!

Anonymous asked
I know what you mean about the affirming quality of hearing about unconventional relationships. It's so good to hear of other people accepting and respecting the fact that just because a relationship is deep, doesn't mean it has to be romantic. Our relationship is just as fulfilling to me as romantic relationship: I care about them, adore them, and respect them just as someone in a romantic relationship would care about, adore, and respect their romantic partner. And that's what matters!

Yesyesyes, precisely.

Thank you for existing, Anon, and for contacting me! It means a great deal to me.

You are fantastic.

Anonymous asked
Sometimes I get worried that if my partner leaves me that no one will ever understand me the way he does.

Oh, Anon. *hugs*

I can’t offer any comforting words, so I’m just gonna offer my sympathy. That kind of understanding between two persons is a rare and precious gift. I am so glad that you treasure it for what it is, and I promise you that whatever may come you can handle it. I believe in you.

Anonymous asked
Thanks! We talked about it and both agreed that we're happy with what we have and don't want to change anything. I think of part of being in love with someone is accepting that you can't change them: I know my darling is never going to feel the same way about me as I do about them, but they're capable of platonic love, and they feel that way about me, which is what really matters. We love one another in the way that feels best to us, and it just makes me happy to have them with me any way.

a;sdfjal;kfj you’re fantastic!

My frubble and I recently had a similar discussion where we ended our romantic relationship of 4 years and turned it into a platonic relationship. We still love each other very much, but the romantic thing just wasn’t working for us (although neither of us is aromantic).

I’m always really happy to hear of people in unconventional relationships making it work. It feels really affirming. Like, hey, we’re all on different tracks but they’re all the right track. You know?

Anonymous asked
I'm in love with an aromantic who has professed to never wanting to be with anyone ever. But I'm really happy our relationship right now, which is based on mutual trust and care, and I'm just glad to be in their life in any form, whatever that form may ultimately take.

Hi, Anon!

Thanks so much for trusting me with your confession. I think it’s wonderful that you’ve found a way to balance out your need to be in this person’s life and to show your love for them with their need to never be in a romantic relationship.

Mutual trust & care for the win! Seriously, I bet you both are fantasmic people and I hope y’all are happy for a long time from now.